I basically have Chandler Bing's personality! How do I change?
Q. Dear Aunts, I realized that I have a flaw in my personality which is that I enjoy putting others down/make fun of them. I always did it thinking that the person wouldn't mind, would take it lightly and laugh at it. I told myself that it was just...
A. 27 June 2018: Accept yourself for who you are. I personally love Chandler. He's witty and quick thinker. Some people can take it, others can't. You just have to get to know people and see if they are ok and realize that that even if they are ok with it they ... (read in full...)
Is he telling the truth about the state of his marriage?
Q. I’m seeing a married man for a number of years. I am in no rush to spending my whole life with but I do love him, he says he is in a sexless marriage, that his wife has no sex drive yet iv seen photos of them with her arm around him yet he doesn’t ...
A. 3 April 2018: There is absolutely no way you can know this at all. Even if you ask him, he can lie straight up to your face. My best advice is for you to assume they are and not believe everything he says about his wife. Men lie, not all, but those that cheat ... (read in full...)
I don't want to nag but my boyfriend never texts me first!
Q. Hey all! So my boyfriend and I just got together officially. I noticed in the first month that we talked quite a bit and he initiated the conversation a lot of the time, and he would always call me in the evenings before bed. When we got into the ...
A. 2 April 2018: If it's not working for you dump him. You need to meet someone that will. He's being mindless or just taking you for granted. Bfs don't behave like this. I mean they don't text you 24/7 but they tend to text you first thing in the morning, maybe a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend ridiculed me saying that I have small boobs and a big tummy!
Q. Dear cubid, The other day my bf of 2 years and i were video chating and i was wearing a tank top without a bra so he made a comment saying " ur boobs need serious help why doesn't the fat from ur stomach go up to ur boobs , just rotate the fat" ...
A. 2 April 2018: That was mean. Just talk to him about it, and tell him that was insensitive and it hurt you. And stop poking fun of your insecurities in front of him. It makes him feel it's ok to joke too since you seem to be so casual about it. So don't. However, ... (read in full...)
Could this guy have a girlfriend, can I trust him?
Q. There’s this guy I like and we tend to flirt a lot when we’re around each other. Mainly playful flirt. However he has never explicitly mentioned a gf. And on his cel-phone he has a picture of a random sexy girl (a body builder girl). He even once ...
A. 29 March 2018: Hi guys! Thank you very much for your answers so far. I really appreciate them. HoneyPie: Yes this is the guy from the gym. I have checked his FB and he has no status :S. He never mentions a gf even though I have casually said things like "Oh ... (read in full...)
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