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Could this go anywhere, regardless of the age difference and distance between us?

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Question - (16 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay, so one of my cousins moved to the USA (I live in the UK), and she has a friend who is a 16 year old guy. She introduced me to him via Instant Messenger, he is really, really nice and funny.

I am only 13 and I truely feel as if I am in love. I know some people would say it's nonsense and that it will never work, but there is no limit to love, and some would say he is a pedo or something like that, but I've seen him over webcam, spoken to him on the phone, and I love him loads.

I'm just wondering whether this could go anywhere, regardless of the age difference and the distance between us. I would appreciate your opinion on this, just to make sure if it's all okay.

Thanks :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008):

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Thanks for the answers!

Turns out he feels the same..

But we decided that we should wait until we meet, and we promised that would happen someday :)

Surpisingly, I find it much better being really close friends for now.

If there was a level of friendship that was like exactly underneath a relationship (and I mean just a smidge under), we would be there :) Haha

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2008):

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Thanks for the answers!

Turns out he feels the same..

But we decided that we should wait until we meet, and we promised that would happen someday :)

Surpisingly, I find it much better being really close friends, but then again ktybry2006, I guess you had a good point,

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A female reader, ktbry2006 United States +, writes (17 September 2008):

honestly, your not in love. your 13 years old and I can understand how you feel, getting butterflies in your stomach everytime you talk to him or even think about him. but try to think more reasonably. it's very cool to keep talking to him and maybe one day even meeting him. But please keep in mind that your 13, and this will not be the last boy that gives you these feelings! Sorry if it sounds harsh, but I'm only being honest

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A female reader, lovesagiftkeepitsafe United Kingdom +, writes (16 September 2008):

lovesagiftkeepitsafe agony auntif you are 100% sure you love him then why not have a go at a relationship with him, go for it girl and like u said theres no limits to love, talk to this guy and find out how he feels, if he does feel the same try a long distance relationship, who knows it may just work, good luck to you.

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