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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:ok I'm only 14 but i feel really strongly about this guy,we have been together on and off for 3 years now. I have never felt this strong. could it be love or is it just a big crush?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 At 14 it's called Puppy Love. In your case maybe it's a St. Bernard puppy, but Puppy Love nonetheless.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): thank you, but when i say on and off, we had a 2 month break, once. but thank you anyway, that helps :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 June 2010):
If you've been going out together and it's been on/off rather than constant, then it's more like lust than it is love. Couples who are on/off never work out. I think it's a cross between a crush and lust. I don't think it's love. Think carefully about whether you want to be with a man with whom you're just on/off all the time.
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