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writes:Hi there, I am really scared so let me just get right too it. My girlfriend and I were in the shower messing around...and she lathered me up with soap so I was nice a nd slick then jerked me off...I came on her side. I didn't really pay attention but I was rubbing it with my hand...and then in my state of euphoria I began to finger her. This was last night, her period should start in any day now(1-5 days I'd say)...will this be any indication of pregnancy or will I have to wait till the next one?It was stupid I know, just one night of worrying about this has made me want to me so much more careful.Really scared here :(
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 April 2010):
 Oh, I'm sorry you're scared. Your level of scared is about 1/1000th of how scared she'll be if she gets pregnant.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 April 2010):
Oh please don't tell me I spent time answering another troll.
You have to tell her. You can't give her a drug without her knowledge. That is unethical to the extreme and may harm her.
Look. You're having sex. This means that theoretically you are an adult. Theoretically you are mature enough to handle the consequences.
You're not the person who gets pregnant.
Tell the person who is going to have to go through a pregnancy or an abortion BEFORE she has to go through a procedure.
If she finds out that you had the knowledge of how to save her from an unwanted pregnancy and didn't do it, she is entitled to conduct an emergency vasectomy without benefit of anesthesia. And put the video of that up on youtube.
Do the right thing. Be a man, not a pale shadow of a troll.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I really don't know what to do.
I don't know if I could get her to just take that without actually knowing. And I don't want her worrying about it because I heard that can alter her period so it could make her worry even more! Really just not sure how to talk about it...
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 April 2010):
 Haha, Tisha I was thinking about that video as I answred this question, I watched your link earlier one time and it is quite entertaining and educational.
So to make this a meaningful post: you should all watch the video and learn about how women become pregnant. It will make us all more secure and responsible.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 April 2010):
One more link: http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
I love this video. It's cheesy, it's corny, it's mildly amusing, and very educational.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (23 April 2010):
I am not a doctor but I do think that you might have to wait until the next month to see, because sperm can live in the body for several days. Although it is unlikely that she will be pregnant. She's about to have her period which is a time with lower chance of pregnancy, and it is unsure if you got sperm on you. I mean you say you rubbed it but you were in the shower right so it could have started to wash away. Even so, outside of the body sperm can only live for a minute or two I think? You can look that up.
Either way, you got a scare for now, wash your hands before putting them in your girl. Or she could start using the birth control pill, then you never have to worry about these things.
If you are scared and worried enough you need to remember about the morning after pill that Tisha mentioned. It has to be taken withing 72 hours! And the longer you wait the weaker the effect.
If you have missed out on the chance to take the morning after pill, buy pregnancy test and you can test as close as 6 days before the next period (on some tests at least, be sure to read the instructions on the test you buy).
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 April 2010):
Last night, you say? Look, if it's at all possible you put a semen-covered finger inside her, then you have delivered sperm into her vagina.
I think you might want to consider getting her the morning-after pill TODAY. Go see the pharmacist and ask about Plan B for her. But hustle in today, because each passing hour makes it less effective, if there was an issue.
This is emergency contraception and not meant for regular use, it may have unpleasant side effects which she needs to discuss with the pharmacist or her doctor.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/emergency-contraception-morning-after-pill-4363.htm
If I were in her shoes, I'd probably want to take this course, just to be sure. But that's me, this is her decision.
Good luck.
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reader, Just Diana  +, writes (23 April 2010):
 er...I do not think she will fall pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): If this happened last night, go get the morning after pill for/with your girlfriend! :) You are still within the 72 hour window, where it is effective. It is very unlikely that your gf is pregnant but better safe than sorry, right?? :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2010): the water may have washed the sperm away but i'd say there is still a chance your girlfriend could be pregnant because although unlikely, women have been known to get pregnant even on their periods. Is she taking any oral birth control such as the pill?? I'd say buy a few tests in, even if it is just to ease your mind and get tested if she misses this month or next month etc.
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