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writes:I'm a 13 year old girl and I need people's advice. I think my 17-year old cousin is bi or someting or maybe she has feelings for me. Whenever I sign on msn she always clicks me and says hey or hi. What do you think?
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reader, love-him  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 Hey babe, there is a very more than likely chance she is just being friendly, after all she is your cousin! feel free to mail me at any time xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2008): Perhaps she's just very friendly?
She might love you - but its more probable that she likes you as a cousin.
I wouldn't spend too much more time thinking about it.
x x x
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (6 February 2008):
 I say hello to 50 people a day, it doesn't mean I'm attracted to them!
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (6 February 2008):
 You are thinking too much into this. Shes proberly lonely and wants to chat or likes you alot as a cousin.
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reader, onlinecounsellor_Dale  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 Hi
Based on the information provided, I would have to agree with you that your cousin probably does have feelings for you; feelings of friendship, that is.
I imagine that there may be quite a few other people who say hi or hey to you on MSN (isn't that kind of the point of signing in?)... do you also interpret their greetings as sexual attraction?
If, however, your cousin has expressed a direct sexual interest in you with her words or behaviour (e.g., physical touch), this would not be okay or appropriate (due to your age and the family relationship the two of you share).
If you feel uncomfortable and/or intimidated by your cousin's attention, simply let her know and give her a chance to change. If this doesn't work, I would encourage you to talk to your parents about it. It is always important to let an adult, whom you can trust, know if you are feeling uncomfortable and/or you believe someone is relating inappropriately to you.
Take care
Dale
www.daleecounsel.com.au
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 Sounds like maybe she's lonely or maybe likes you as a friend/person/cousin...i don't hear 'lover' in saying hello.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (6 February 2008):
 saying hi isn't a sign someone is bi or attracted to you..
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 You are cousins and being close or saying hi is no indications of bi. You need more concrete proof.
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