A
male
age
36-40,
*rion
writes: I am a virgin but hopefully not for long ;) anyways i obvioulsy dont know how long i can last in bed but it REALLY worries me that i wont be long enough. I understand PE to be the inability to delay ejaculation. Well like i said im not experienced so i dont know but i do know that if i masturbate i can control and decide when i want to. normally i do it quick but if i wanted to i could stop... slow down and take my time but seeing that sex is like 100x more exciting it wont take me long to get to climax i like to think i could stop before but idk. Basically what im asking is if i wanted to i could (if i was turned on enpough) ejaculate in like two minutes but i can control how long. WILL IT BE THE SAME FOR SEX????
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reader, Another_Kapiti +, writes (27 December 2009):
I actually asked an expert (another guy!) he says the more you think about it, the more nervous you'll be, so take it easy! If you're really serious about the girl then you'll be fine. Don't rush into anything just cos you want to lose your virginity!
Think about stuff that is likely to dampen the excitement. For example, think about a sport game or the weather!
Let me know how you get on.
Ak.
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