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writes:I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now, i really like him, however he keeps on touching me where i dont want to be touched and the only time he does this when he kisses me even if its just a peck. He wont hold my hand or even act like we are boyfriend and girlfriend. He says he likes me and that he is developing feelings for me. However, i am worried he is just saying that to me, so i will do it with him. Could he possiably be just using me Reply to this Question
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (14 August 2010):
oh yea he's using you because he sure isn't shy! love is a 2 way street and yes it consist of holding hands kissing without having to be fondled everytime you kiss! it's like ok lets have sex with out kissing and ok here i go close your eyes im done! move on...... before it gets harder for you to let go.
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reader, OhGetReal +, writes (14 August 2010):
 If that is the way your gut is making you feel, then you are 100% accurate. Our body ALWAYS tells us information before our mind is ready to hear it. He isn't acting right, he isn't being sincere and you should listen to your instincts as disappointed as you may feel and tell him to get LOST.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (14 August 2010):
 this situation is a 'trust your gut' situation for sure. There really isn't enough detail here to say one way or another, but trust your gut.
You can always ask him where things are going. Don't have sex with him until you're in a relationship if you're worried about this, because that is a mistake I made before (just earlier this year) when my gut was telling me "this guy just wants sex" but I convinced myself that he was that into me that we'd have sex and then he'd date me...it did not happen that way. However, I'm almost certain that he would have dated me if I played a bit more hard to get.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010): Yes, he's just using you. You seem to want more than a physical relationship and he feeds off of your attitude by saying he's "developing feelings." Don't believe it.
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