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writes:plz this my first time of fallen in love with a girl,and is also the first time a girl has ever care for me as she was my mom,we av been dating a month plus now,so her parents invite me to their house,so wen i get there i met with the mum,she gave us some advice and told us that she is not against male and female relationship but all she is againt is sex,am 21 years while my gf is 16,so one day her pastor came to their hose i was around wen he came,bt i later left and he not see me.to make the story short,the pastor is against the relationship,so he ask to broke up with me,my gf told me wat is happening,bt i dont know wat to do or say,we cry and cry,the day she told me we have to break up our relatioship was the first day i smoke and get drunk,wen she knew what happened shecalled me and told that she still love me,that i should not mind wat her pastor is saying, i fill better,but few days she text me and say we have to break up,i returned her pictures yesterday,wen i get back to my house this is wat she text to me,i guess 2day is the last day,plz tkcare of yourselffor me dnt let mosquitors to bite you,cover yourselfvery well you know you are my babyand i dont want anything to happened to you,i love you so much,she uses capital latters,now i domt want to leave her she done somany things for,what will ido in this situation,tnk u for your time,
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (14 August 2010):
You don't have to leave her! true love is true love and sounds like she loves you dearly too! give her some time she has pressure from them and it's hard on her too! and she will make wrong decisions by being confused shes still a baby really. but you know what? i got married when i was 16 and my boyfriend at the time was 21 too! and his parents well his mother wasn't excepting him wanting to marry me! and he told his mother that he loved me and we wer'e getting married with or with out her wishes! and we did and she came to our wedding his father never had a problem w/ it he adored me. she always gave me a hard time but i ignored her. i mean what do you do? why don't you text her and let her know you aint going no where that you love her and yea you will put off spray on to keep away the mesquitos! and it is hard because her mother does have say so she is a minor! until she turns 18 and she will be 18 remember you aint going no where you got time for the both of you to grow together! just don't freak out and what is meant to be will be meant to be. you'll see in time whether it is true love or not. just don't complicate matters by doing what they are doing to her just be there for her and listen to her.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (14 August 2010):
 Because she is only 16 you don't have a lot of options I'm afraid. Until she is 18 her parents are her legal guardians and able to say what happens with her. If it's meant to be with you two then she will still want you when she is longer in the care of her parents. Sorry I can't be any more help.
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