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writes:well, i met a very sweet girl n she was so friendly that i couldn't even imagine at all.after 3 times meeting accidentally, we got share of our cell nos n we became very good friends. after we got to meet many times, i got fallen in love with her. but what could i do as she have already a bf. she only loves him not me. but pleasing thing is that her family wants marrying her into the same caste and she agrees too. her bf does not belong to that caste. so i thought i got a chance to propose, as i am of same caste. i did propose three times but she refused telling me that she still loves him very much. but she has also told me that if i passed everything she appreciates n acceptance then she would think about the proposal.now i have not called her, and its been 1 month i didnt meet her nor call her because of certain misunderstanding. so tell me what should i do now? give me ideas,plz................................ Reply to this Question
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (10 August 2011):
 All you can do now is wait I'm afraid. You have made it very clear how you feel, you have told her what you want - but she is still in love with someone else so until that changes, there isnt much hope for you I'm afraid.
Just leave her alone for a while and wait to see if she contacts you - if she does eventually break up with her boyfriend and decides she wants to be with you, then she will come back to you. But if her love for her boyfriend really is that strong, then she might not care what her family wants and may end up staying with him because of love.
So all you can do is be patient, leave her alone and wait to see what happens. You cant force her to leave her boyfriend or for her to stop loving him, so there really isnt anything more you can do.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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