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writes:I've been with a guy for 4 years, stable relationship and couple of years ago he told me he likes transgender girls. I'm a very open minded person, and accepted he's sexuality and told him that I would support him if he needed to explore he's sexuality. For me, I wouldn't want him to supress he's curiosity only to find out after we got married and had children, that he cheated on me. Last month he went away for 4 wks to Asia to basically have sex with transgender girls and he's coming hm in less than a week. I need advice... Did I do the right thing?? I feel sick in the stomach... I don't know how he would change, how he would feel about me...Was a stupid to let him do this... I don't know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2011): This may sound stupid, but I never looked at it like that.
I have previously been in a relationship with a girl so basically I'm bi, he said it was ok for me to be with other girls, but I have no desire to be with anyone else but him....
I dont want to be in an open relationship.
I also didn't want to tie him down to me when he was so curious about transexual girls.. I don't know.. I feel very confused now
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 August 2011):
 Had you agreed you were going to have an open relationship ? Because, basically,he is cheating,it does not matter if he is having sex with females,males or transgenders,transgenders are PERSONS too,so your bf is having sex with a PERSON who is not you. Were/are/will you be ok with not being sexually exclusive ?
... Apparently not-so why ever did you give him official permission to cheat?
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