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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I started dating a little under two months ago, during our break, and when we'd go out with our friends or just by ourselves things would be great. I'm his first girlfriend and he's obscenely shy in the first place, so it took a lot just to get him comfortable enough around me.Now we're back at school and it's not that he avoids ME, exactly, he just avoids me as a girlfriend. When we're on our break between classes, he'll follow me to where I usually meet with my friends, but if I get just a bit ahead of him, he'll back off. He won't talk to me by his own volition between classes. I usually grab him toward the end of the day so we can have at least one break together, and he is receptive of it, but again, won't initiate anything on his own.However, on IM, he'll say he really loves me and calls me 'sweetie' and always, always starts the conversation. When we say bye, he sends me a billion hearts and stuff, so I honestly think he likes me. I just don't know what to make of the school situation. Help?
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reader, Jason32477  +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Try talking to him about your problem.Let him know what you have told us.Tell him you wish to see him more.Maybe you could walk slower and not meet up with your friends? Might help you to spend more time with him,and will signal that you value your time with him more than with you friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): You don't sound as old as you say you are but that is your business. I say be super bold and walk up to him and kiss or make out in front of everyone. At the moment he may be scared and a little embarrassed but it will knock the shyness out of him. Every man or boy thinks about that happening. If you do that he will be your love slave forever.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (19 August 2009):
Try talking to him about your problem. Let him know what you have told us. Tell him you wish to see him more. Maybe you could walk slower and not meet up with your friends? Might help you to spend more time with him, and will signal that you value your time with him more than with you friends.
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