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What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles

Q.   This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...

A.   4 December 2011: CindyCares, you are correct about the fact that her preferences shouldn't bother me in that way, but really it doesn't, the whole point is that i don't wanna end up having a wife who's fantasizing about someone else, or regretting any step she takes ... (read in full...)

What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles

Q.   This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...

A.   3 December 2011: thanks chigirl, nice response, but we have argued about her wanting me to grow bigger :), and has mentioned that she is impressed by men with large stature and she is trying to get over it, which i don't believe is possible, that's why the entire ... (read in full...)

What should I do with my girlfriend who is into muscles

Q.   This would sound a bit silly, but i've become to realize my gal is a MUSCLE fan. She even mentions it in a very inconsiderate way, like if we'd be talking, and i mentioned a guy's name, she's say "yeh the guy with the muscles" literately. No ...

A.   2 December 2011: it really doesn't effect my self esteem, but pointing out what is lacked on my side is inconsiderate cause it shows that no matter what i offer, it might end up being a waste; not enough. If i were to chose i'd select a girl with so and so which she ... (read in full...)

She checked out the waiter and now I'm wondering if I should be worried?

Q.   I have a fiance that i am mad about, but i got a bad impression a few days ago that has been driving me crazy. We were at a bar having drinks, when a decently fit waiter showed up to serve us, and could see that she was impressed by his appearance ...

A.   1 September 2011: i have mentioned how that irritated me and she said that meant i didnt trust her, which wasn't really the case, but it was to know if i was what she wanted. wouldn't want her to end up in something she'd regret later. She did express strong feelings ... (read in full...)

She checked out the waiter and now I'm wondering if I should be worried?

Q.   I have a fiance that i am mad about, but i got a bad impression a few days ago that has been driving me crazy. We were at a bar having drinks, when a decently fit waiter showed up to serve us, and could see that she was impressed by his appearance ...

A.   1 September 2011: To Abeniala, i do have my confidence, i just have my doubts. I'm either accepted as i am or not, in which case i dont really wanna be with someone who wouldn't. i do take one glance at other women out of instinct but am convinced that i can't find a ... (read in full...)

She checked out the waiter and now I'm wondering if I should be worried?

Q.   I have a fiance that i am mad about, but i got a bad impression a few days ago that has been driving me crazy. We were at a bar having drinks, when a decently fit waiter showed up to serve us, and could see that she was impressed by his appearance ...

A.   1 September 2011: Well, can't it be a case of "i want those shoes" ??... (read in full...)

What are the true signs that would show he's interested in me?

Q.   Dear cupid,there is this guy am strongly attracted to,when we are having a chat,i find my self asking lots of qst about him,fanny enough he doesnt ask me at all,but there is this kind of look that he gives me,it makes me think that he is also ...

A.   1 August 2011: a guy interested in a girl would always be happy to get some time from that girl. if he stops to talk to u, and try to see if he gives you more attention when other people are there. that would be a good sign. if you ever mentioned a fact about you, ... (read in full...)

Clingy boyfriend is suffocating the life out of me!!

Q.   My boyfriend is getting on my nerves so much! He wants to see me every single day! I no thats nice, and its nice to feel wanted but i want my own space. Ive only been going out with him for a month, and now its the six week holidays and its the ...

A.   30 July 2011: I agree with BEAUTY2010, you need to let him know that, but just keep in mind that he might be doing that to please you, as in trying to show you how much he loves you. Lot of guys, including me, feel that continuous contact with their mates is a ... (read in full...)

How do you tell someone that you like them?

Q.   We're friends for sure, good friends. But I sense that maybe she may like me, we've only known each other well for maybe 6 months, before that she had a boyfriend and we hardly ever talked at work. Then when she broke up I turned it on and now we're ...

A.   30 July 2011: Don't rush it!!! I've been there, so your first step is to find out whether you put yourself in the FRIEND status, cause if so, you'd break what good relationship u have with her. You're on the safe side if not, but if you are, then start divertin... (read in full...)

Depressed boyfriend now he has quit drinking and I'm not sure how to help him.....

Q.   Hi. My boyfriend recently quit drinking, about 2 weeks ago. Since then it’s been an up-down rollercoaster with him, and I just don’t know how to help him. He’s been depressed, irritable, overall moody. And since most of his friends drink, it’s been ...

A.   29 July 2011: well im guessing drinking was his fun part, so maybe he's missing out on fun. u could try either getting him into some kind of hobby, specially travelling experiencing new things, that could freshen him up, or introduce him to new ppl he could ... (read in full...)

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