A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Do men that cheat ever genuinely change??? if they do how do you know that they changed? Reply to this Question
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male
reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 September 2009):
You don't. You have to start building all the trust up again. Can you do that?
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male
reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (30 September 2009):
 You know he changed when the source of the reason he cheated is no more. Was it out of immaturity? Was it an addiction? Was it a particular person? Was it a particular emotional need that was not being met? Whatever the reason that got him to cheat, if that reason is still present, he has not (can not) change. If that reason is gone, he has the capacity for change. For example, if he cheated because he would get drunk, and that was the ONLY reason, then if he goes sober, the chances of him cheating again die with the drinking.
-Frank Kermit
http://www.franktalks.com
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