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writes: Nearly three years ago I met a guy at my friends wedding who was the grooms best mate. We got on like a house on fire and spent the whole reception in a corner getting intimate. I was told before this that he was married with children but that didn't seem to worry us. We kept in touch for a while but it soon came to a stop. Just over a year ago we got in touch again as he was now divorced and he came and stayed over every few weeks. Things were going really well and i started to fall in love with him, although i didn't tell him and he started saying to people we were together. Due to work issues i moved away about five months ago and about an hours drive away. We keep in touch over the phone and recently i have been able to let him know a bit more about how i feel and he seems to be feeling the same. I know he is very busy doing long shifts and trying to get to see the kids but he never seems to be free to get together. I now know i am in love with him and he is a very good friend but its killing me not knowing what he sees happening between us. I want to ask him if he feels the same as me but am scared of losing him altogether. They say women are hard to understand. WHat should i do?
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Julie, writes (8 February 2005): Right now you dont seem to be having any time together anyway,and perhaps he is feeling the same as you but is unsure how you really feel.Speak to him. Tell him what your feeling. Someone has to make to move and at least you will know where you stand. You cant put your life on hold hoping.Good Luck, Im sure things will work out ok. Just be honest with him, its usually the best way.
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