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writes:I am a married female, aged 34, with 3 kids.An ex BF from another town persuaded me to meet him on the sly.It started with flattery and ended with a hasty hotel room sex episode.He was unable to perform. I felt revulsion and became physically sick. I broke it off.Has anyone felt the same way in similar circumstances? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): what did you get sick from - the fact that you were cheating your husband or the fact that your lover could not get it up and sex wasn't the best??? have you told your hb about your hotel romp and what is the status of your marriage now? seems like you will never confess to breaking your marital vows, would you. how do you even mend your broken marriage now with all the lies and deceit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009): Yes, my girlfriend of many years left me. I loved her deeply.
I started dating again and hooked up with someone I like as a friend, and we had sex. It was emotionally painful because while I was doing this, I missed my ex girlfriend and it felt terrible afterward.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 December 2009):
It's guilt. You obviously made a decision that you didn't really think through, and now you know you didn't want to do it. Work at your marriage at all costs, and never stray again. Take a really good look at why you wanted to cheat, at why you felt the need to go with this other guy? how is your marriage? How are you feeling about your life? Ask yourself those questions, and find your answers.
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