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*dviceInNeed
writes:Hello,So this is kind of embaressing really.Im 37 years of age and i have only just lost my virginity to a long term boyfriend because of lots of issues.But, during intercourse i did not orgasm at all? and i didnt feel like it was at all good? We are using condoms and being safe but... i was just wondering if you could help me and give me any tips on why this is happening or how i could improve this ?Thankyou very much.
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reader, AdviceInNeed +, writes (23 February 2010):
AdviceInNeed is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay ,
thankyou so much for the advice :)
i have experimented with myself and weve recently talked about what eachother want from eachother. so hopefully the experience will improve alot.
thankyou so much for your advice!
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reader, Miss Karma Louise +, writes (9 August 2009):
yeah thats because only 75% of women do orgasm while having intercourse. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): Ive Had Sex Twice Now With The Same Guy,And I Did Not Have An Orgasam While Intercourse,But When Being Touched I Did, I Dont Quite Know Why I Havent Had An Orgasam During Intercourse Ethier,And I Would Also Like Too Know,!So If Anyone Has Any Useful Answers Please Let Us No,! :)Thank You And Good Luck In Maybe Finding An Answer Out,!
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reader, busy04  +, writes (8 August 2009):
 Well sex is a learning experience & being that it was your first time, it was normal to not orgasm or feel that it wasn't "great". The good thing is you can experiment and try different methods of touching, feeling, kissing etc. to enhance the experience. And it always helps to be relaxed and really comfortable. You know, light some candles, play some soft mellow music, do things that really get you calm & ready for the moment. And don't just jump right in it, take your time and explore things with your boyfriend. Let him try different things with you to see how it makes you feel & start there. And you can even explore yourself by YOURSELF, get to know your own body, what turns you on & what doesn't, where you like to be touched and things like that. And try not to focus so much on achieving orgasm,don't get me wrong having one is an amazing experience, but try to just enjoy & get used to the actual act itself and then when you don't think about orgasm, it'll happen. Sex can be likened to progress it takes a little time to get it right. You can always keep trying until you achieve that moment of orgasm.
It'll happen...patience & practice :)
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reader, FountainOfIndifference  +, writes (8 August 2009):
 When you consider that the average man achieves orgasm four times quicker than the average women, you can see why many women won't achieve orgasm in every sexual encounter. Add to that the pressure put on some women to have orgasms, and a sexual encounter can become more stressful than tax day. And that just about guarantees a woman won't have an orgasm.Foreplay is important. Longer foreplay equals better lubrication, which equals more satisfaction. Kiss, touch, hug, squeeze, nibble, stroke, brush, tickle, tease, add your own verb of choice.
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