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writes:Ive been broken up with my boyfriend for 2 months but im still so confused and not understanding it. We dated for 8 months. I wasn't just some random girl, we had a relationship. Spent quality time with each other, met some of his friends and family. Had me in his house, left me at his house when he went to work. He did start to get distant and I asked him if there was anything wrong and he said no. And in our last conversation he still didn't out rite say he was done with our relationship as a matter of fact he said he still wanted to call me, see how I was doing or if he went to a game (we both like sports) he'd want to be able to call and invite me. Other than that all he said was he wasn't feeling it. I dont get it at all because he still up until this point had us going along like we were still in a relationship. We haven't talked for two months and I havent called him I feel this was his choice and he needs to contact me. If this were because of another girl how come he couldn't just tell me and what kind of possibility is there that he would call me later on down the line.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 June 2010):
I know it. but it's those questions that will cause you more pain. And that's why you need to move forward. No one will ever be able to answer those questions, including him. You will always have another one. Get through this pain, get back out there with new people and friends and work through this. If you don't, you'll just be spending time thinking about a man who's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI hear all that your saying. Im just hurt because he makes me feel as if I never mattrered to him. And I wonder how it is so easy for him after us talking every day go to nothing at all and to have moved on and not miss me or wonder how I am doing because I wonder about him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 June 2010):
I think if you continue to look for answers, you're going to dog yourself further into the hole you're in. Sometimes, thing just don't work out. Maybe there was another girl. Maybe he wasn't feeling it. Maybe he's not the right guy for you. You will never know. Even if you spoke now, and asked him and you got an answer, you'd never really know because for ever answer that he can give, you'd have another question. If he said he wasn't feeling it, you'd say why. If he said he didn't know, you'd say there must be a reason. If he gave a reason, you'd question that reason. At the end of all this, for whatever reason, he decided that it just wasn't working out. He's just not the guy for you, and that's why it ended. And this is now why you need to stop dwelling upon him, get back out there with friends and meet new people. Throw yourself into work, or into a hobby. Anything. But accept he has gone, and that chances are he won't come back, or you'll never get away from him and waste your life.
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