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writes: Me and my guy were making out and I was on top of him and grinding a little bit into him and he was wearing jeans and I kept trying to see if he was hard but I don't think he was. Maybe I'm just too ugly or something. It made me feel like crap! I kept telling myself "OH he was wearing jeans, it's hard to tell with jeans," but I don't really believe that. Anyone else have this problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Sweetness,
Firstly, if he was wearing thick and fitted briefs under those jeans, it is ENTIRELY possible that you couldn't feel a hard on. Secondly, even if he didn't get hard, it doesn't mean that you're ugly or that he didn't enjoy himself. Maybe he's just got better self control then other guys!
He sounds like a gentleman to me. There's nothing wrong with him sweetness and there's ESPECIALLY nothing wrong with you.
xxIndia
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reader, DV1 +, writes (21 May 2007):
 I'm going to give away a little guy secret. I'll put it in the best way that I can without too many details. Although it may seem like it feels good, guys are sensitive down there, especially when they go from quiet to erection... To keep people from noticing, we push our privates in a direction towards the leg area, which means that we won't stick up. If a guy is wearing relax fit jeans, you're not going to notice if he's hard or not until he stands up. Then there's the getting up trick... If you see him get up and put a hand in his pocket quickly, he's trying to do a two second adjust without trying to be seen,to spare himself of embarrassment. You might have aroused him, but he probably kept it on the downlow to keep you from thinking that he's a pervert...
DV1
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (21 May 2007):
 Hold it! The fact that he didn't get a hard on does NOT mean that you're ugly! It can be depending on any number of reasons such as: nervousness, intoxication, psychological pressure, etc. Don't take it personally. If he made out with you I'm sure he did it because he liked you in some way or another.
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