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anonymous
writes:? 4 men! Can u really have sex with Some1 4 a long period of time and Amd not have any feelings 4 them??Whn u have sex with the 3or more times A week and the sex is the best??
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 July 2010):
Yes, there are men who can go out, have sex with women for ages and never love them.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Yes, it is possible for man to have sex with a woman and not have feelings for her. This includes long term sex - weeks, months, etc.
But when this happens it means the man is just using the woman for sex, which is in my opinion wrong to do.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Nope for some yup for others. Those that can might as well just put a hole in the matress and save the heartache, If the hand is better than the girl then he should never have become a partner to anyone.
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reader, yeahserious +, writes (21 July 2010):
 For me theres no way! i couldnt just have sex with any1 and have no feelings for them bleh. From my experience some of my friends do this allllll the time. They just have sex with whoever is able and wants 2. So the girls just get used over and over again hoping my friends would change and start 2 love them. And it never happens.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 July 2010):
 What happened to typing real words? Is it really that hard? I don't get it...
To answer your question, some can, some can't, it depends on the guy. I think you'll find the same thing for women. Everyone is different.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): Personally, I develop feelings for someone...usually before I even go to bed with them. The few times I had casual sex, I quickly developed feelings by the 2nd or 3rd time, and had to make a decision to stay or go. I don't like being in that position, so I avoid casual sex, personally. I get to know a woman a bit first...at least 2 or 3 dates. Women mean too much to me...I get all wrapped up in teh moment, her taste, even her smell. It's just too wierd being so intimate and not having feelings. I just am not programmed that way.
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