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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been very good friends with a guy for about 8 years. There wasn't anything we didn't do together.. till I got married. Now he won't call me or have anything to do with me at all. I am married, not dead. I still need him like I need all my friends.. Just because we aren't sleeping together, shouldn't mean we can't be friends... there are no feelings other then friendship.. We made that clear from the start. I saw him on my wedding day because we had the reception at a park, and he was real evasive.. didn't say much and wouldn't look at me. What do you think? He is one of my best friends. Should I just move on? --- Lost
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): i think he is hurt at the fact that you got married
it could be that he has feelings for you and feels bad that he couldn't just tell you how he felt about you
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (19 December 2008):
 Sometimes we think we can be FWB and everything be ok when the other meets someone and falls in love but it doesnt work that way.. There is always an attachment if we want it or not and in the end someone isnt able to except the others relationship ..Even if we say its ok doesnt really make it ok he is probably hurting and a little confused just give it time them maybe he will realize he misses the friendship and so what if you cant be sexual anymore ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): He apparently has unresolved feelings for you. If he won't even talk to you he doesn't deserve a place in your life.
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