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Can someone give me some pointers on understanding flirting?

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Question - (28 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2005)
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How do you know when a bloke is flirting with you with intent or just being friendly? Is it hard to read the signs between general flirting (friendly) or I-fancy-you flirting (if you catch my drift on any of this).

Is trying to wind you up/take the p***s out of you/innuendo a friendly thing or a flirting thing?

It will be interesting to see what answers I get on this and how people view it!

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A reader, star3482 +, writes (30 May 2005):

Winding you up in a playful, non hurtful way is flirting. Touches and good eye contact is also flirting - basically, most men that talk to you are usually flirting, as they all size up every woman as a potential fuck if it's in a social surrounding. xx

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A reader, schlottjl United States +, writes (30 May 2005):

schlottjl agony auntIn general any sexual innuendo is a fancy flirt and any sweet talk but no accidental touch and no physical talk is just a maybe.

To know the difference let him guide you and keep it at his level. Then every once in a while tap his arm gently while laughing at his antics and hold his eyes with yours for a little come take me look that lasts only a moment longer than a passing glance- you know the one- chin down looking from the top of your eyes and a slightly evil but more sex siren grin.

Send him the message subcon. that you would be willing to take it up a notch. If he cools off a bit -quickly do so as well. If he's into you this will gently assure him, with min. risk that he will not be rejected if he likes you. That should open the doors to see his real meaning.

Good luck and have fun!

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