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writes: My husband is always playing a computer game call Dark Ages of Camelot. He says it relieves his stress. He works 80 hours a week and sometimes weekends. We have 2 kids and have been together 16 years. Always the same problem: No attention for me. If it's not the computer, it is something else that he does obsessively. Weeks will go by and he doesn't come to bed until everyone is asleep. We have very little time together - actually none. I asked him if he could put aside a couple of days a week for me and he says I promise and it never happens or it does happen and it never happens again. We hardly even have an intimate relationship anymore. Well that's been years actually. Things got better when I decided to just not be home as much then I would not feel hurt. But really why am I here? I know he loves me and he is kind and a great father but I feel he lives like he is single. Help please, Lisa Reply to this Question
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (29 May 2005):
Maybe you should be asking him these questions since he is the only one who has the answers! and it is answers you should be getting. Tell him point blank, if he does not have straight answers for you then you are going to have to come up with some of your own, and they might not be the same ones. Sounds like push has come to shove honey....Good Luck.
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