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writes:Hi, I am just wondering how to approach this situation...there is this girl that likes my boyfriend... and i am constantly annoyed by her because she is always trying to hang out with him, even though he doesn't want to and pretty much tries not to talk to her. Anyways the problem is I was just looking at his pictures on facebook, and i noticed she commented on one, saying "Awwwww that is my favorite picture of you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" at first I was pissed off, and I still am.. but then I was looking at it and the excessive use of exclamation marks made me think she is doing it just to piss me off? so should I ignore it? I really want to send her message telling her to back off, but I know for a fact that will stir up drama that I don't want. (She has a very bitchy best friend that previously lived with my boyfriend, and my bf has said numerous times "they are both dumb bitches") So I'm wondering how to approach it? should I just mention it to him? what should I say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI totally agree that it's up to him to stop it, and I am a very chill girl that doesn't get jealous very often. I am concerned though that if he is unaware of it bothering me then he is not going to stop it. Would it be safe to just mention something like "oh have you been talking to such and such?, cause i noticed she commented on your picture" and maybe just mention that I don't appreciate her doing that?
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reader, ollydakat  +, writes (18 March 2009):
 yes ignore it.
Knowing the typical male he is lapping up the attention
continuing to get angry will only dig a grave for your relationship. dont be jealous. boys hate jealousy
prove to him how much of a cool girl you are by being very chill about the situation. remember. the key to a relationship is trust
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