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writes:I am 25 years ols and very healthy.I am dating a female who is 35 years old and mother of two.I have sex with her twice a month.She is seperated fom her husband.Our sexual relationship is going fine.I am planning to settle with her.I sometimes feel that she has sex with someone else also.Can i find out from her vagina or any other ways to find out if she had sex with someone else .I love her so much.I dont want to ask her about this and spoil our relationship also.
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Checking her underwear won't get you anywhere. This seems like you're trying to control her. This is worse than just asking her. Don't check her underwear. It's an invasion of privacy and just a creepy thing to do to someone else's underwear. If you can't trust her, then talk to her about it. Don't start accusing her, but just tell her you have some trust issues and you can work on that and she can help you get over them. Has she given you any reason to not trust her? If she has, then talk to her. But if she hasn't, you just have to learn to trust her and stop doubting that she's been faithful.
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reader, Roshii  +, writes (22 July 2011):
 Oh as an after note to anyone who may have found this question through a google search etc. Yes semen can be found with in her panty's if shes cheating on you but There is something you should make note of here, During a woman's period cycle her Discharge becomes egg whitey and stick much like that of semen. In-fact its so similar to semen unless you have a chemical testing lab your not going to know the difference.
So sneaking a look at your partners panty's isn't a sure fire way of checking.
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reader, Roshii +, writes (18 July 2010):
It seems to me that theres a issue with your own self confidence. Thats just a personal opinion though.
From a rational angle though, lets look at what you put in your post.
First you mention the age difference, How many times you have sex, The fact shes devorced. Then all of a sudden you mention you have a feeling shes having sex with someone else.
First of all, If you have any concerns you should talk to your partner about them, not sneak looks at her pantys.
For example, say she was, how are you going to explain you know she has? or suspect she has. She comes home from work, you initiate some foreplay. Then mid foreplay your like "Your looser than you were, Your cheating on me"
Thats aload of crap btw alot of different elements can effect the tightness of a woman, Drink for example. Stress. arrousal. So that rules out that test.
It seems to me that this is all in your head, And that theres a completely different problem here, You mention how often you have sex, then say your sexual relationship is going well. What is your real concern here, It seems to me that your not actually seeing this woman. Which makes her business nothing to do with yours.
(but thats just from your post)
If you are seeing each other, you dont mention anything about whats lead you to believe shes sleeping with someone else. are you scared shes getting it else where?
Or is this because you were sleeping with her when she was still with her husband.
The fact is if your not together, its none of your business if shes sleeping with anyone else. If your worried about STD's then you shouldnt be sleeping with her unprotected, If its purely wanting to take that extra step with her (which is what i think the problem is) Then you should talk to her, Take it slow, See if she wants to take it a step further. You should in no way shape or form, Sniff her pantys unless its for some strange fetish.
Hope i helped
Roshii
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): after sex, for about 72 hours, trace semen will leave the vagina. There are products which claim to be able to identify semen on garments, such as a girls panties. this might be your best bet.
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reader, superfly +, writes (11 June 2007):
Your best indicator to know if she's cheating....IS YOUR GUT FEELING...IT'S NEVER WRONG ABOUT SOMETHING UNUSUAL.
You may have a pattern of flirting or conversing intimately with a guy..which you may be picking up vibes for cheating...
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reader, superfly +, writes (11 June 2007):
Yes.Check her panties for the smell of semen. Have you ever smelled a load of mastubating semen?....Women can't produce that smell under no circumstances.Okay, assuming they had protected sex, the other indication would be a big change in the size and feel of the vagina. It feels like a bucket more than it use to with you, unless you give her a ton of foreplay, then the vagina becomes overly wet from the beginning of the vagina to the end of the vagina(all over).
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2007): Hi darling,
no love there is no way to tell by looking at her vagina.... If you are inlove with her then i think you should be honest about what you are feeling. you dont mention about any other part of your relationship, i.e. how often you spend time with her and does she also want to settle with you, if so it is really important to be honest with each other, at the end of the day love you need to no the truth so you can get on with your plans one way or another. I hope all this works out for you take care and good luck xx
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reader, love-him +, writes (6 June 2007):
 well.. sorri but i gota say the word 'poonani' makes me laugh.. babe i dont realy think you can tell from her vagina.. i think its mainly you thats gotta ask her.. if there are no obvious reasons for you to think she is cheating then maybe its just your mind playing games.. try and forget about it.. if not i suggest you ask her. i hope i helped, mail me if you want to talk x x x
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reader, mcbirdie +, writes (6 June 2007):
 No. There is no way to tell from a woman's vagina if she is having sex with other men, or even if she is having sex at all, unless you see her immediately after when she still has the smell and wetness associated with sex on her.
You may not want to ask her this question, but if it is something that you are this concerned with that you are looking for ways to examine her without her knowing, you need to talk to her. If she has given you some reason to think she is cheating on you, then you need to talk about that. If she hasn't, then you owe it to her to come clean about your unwarranted thoughts.
Best of luck to you.
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