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writes:i have been in a relationship for 7 months about 5 days ago he finished with me, we had plans to have babies go on holiday an live together. i dont know y he has finished with me i love him so much he means the world 2 me. how do i get him back.
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reader, lil-angel182 +, writes (26 January 2008):
 Hey i know how your feeling, i've recently went through a similar thing where my ex just left me for no reason. I know it will really hurt right now but trust me it will eventually get better.You've got to options on what you can a) speak to him and try to mend things or b) leave things as they are and try to move on. There probably not what you want to do but trust me its the best way. I tried talking to my ex and all it did was drive us further apart so i left talking to him for a few weeks and focused on myself, it made such a difference.We're talking again and trying to be friends but now i realise actually how much of a jerk he was, cause he now claiming he going to australia to live with a girl he never met in his life cause he 'loves' her, i defaintly dogded a bullet there lol.
Just do what you think is best and i hope everything works out for you whatever you choose to do.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 January 2008):
 There must be a reason why he walked out from you. Do you know the reason or reasons?
If you don't know, maybe you can ask him out to talk about it .Don't be accusing or high handed but just be nice and know what is the reason. Maybe , you can try to explain your side to him or apologize if you did anything wrong. Kiss and then make up.
If you love him , don't give up easily. Keep your communications with him open.
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reader, speedcat  +, writes (26 January 2008):
he dumps you with NO explanation??? good thing you never had his baby,,,would he just take off on his child too? Your probably better off...sorry
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reader, Devilish Angel +, writes (25 January 2008):
 It sounds like you love him more than he loves you. Sometimes, this is the case. No matter how much you love him, if he doesn't return your love, it'll only hurt you more and more as time goes on. Have one last talk with him to see if things can be mended and then if not, go on with your life. I know how much it hurts but you just gotta be strong for yourself. Time helps to heal the pain but you have to make a decision to either move on, or sit around and wait for something that's not gonna happen.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (25 January 2008):
 What he did is major jerk material. First off from this it makes me wonder if u can do better. But first off try finding out why he left and if he wont then you should move on and try to find someone else. You shoudlnt wait around for someone who can do this to you and not give you any explanation. And if he does tell you i reccomend making a new post on this site with more up to date info on the situation.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 January 2008):
 Boy aren't you glad you didn't have any babies with the guy?! I mean to just off and dump you with no explanation, what a jerk! I guess you could see if you can get him to tell you why he broke up and that way you can see if there is a possibility of you guys getting back together.
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