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writes:Hello,i recently found out my wife cheated on me about 2 months ago. is there any way i can find out who it was with? if i find semen anywhere in my house can i some how get it tested to see who it belongs to.what if i have a suspect and have him compare his semen to that in the house? is 2 months too long to test for a specific person?please let me know asap,THank you,Jim
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 October 2008):
You'd have to get a sample of the semen in your house, make sure it's not contaminated, then get a sample of your suspect's DNA. (probably using a swab in his mouth)
Once you've done that head down to your nearest lab and pay a scientist to compare the samples.
Seriously, I think you would be better off just leaving your wife, or if you want to stay with her then forgive her and move on.
It doesn't matter who she did it with. What matters is WHY she did it. Fix that so it won't happen again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): I think this is "sick"; if you don't trust her talk to her, confront her, and if need be leave her. Why waste time on all these test? It might not even be successful. You need to make up your mind if you want to be with this person, if not, MOVE ON.
Why are you delaying the agony? It is obvious your relationship is in trouble. Either go for counseling and sort it out or walk away!
Good luck!
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reader, chandra Mcmillan +, writes (5 October 2008):
 Jim, I am sorry to hear that your wife has been unfaithful. There is testing that can be done on Seman however, you would need a sample of the collected seman and a sample of the persons you beleive it is. It would cost a hell of a lot of money and a lot of places need the consent of the person who the sample is from to start with.
I would say that the way in which you are acting is normal of a suspicious husband who has been cheated on. The fact is that who ever your wife has slept with she has been unfaithful and you are almost trying to get evidence against her. It sounds to me that you have lost trust for her and a relationship is bassed mainly on trust.
Tell her you want to know who she slept with and you think it is your right. If you can not trust her maybe have some time apart and question what you want from now in to the futer. good luck
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