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writes:ive been with my bf for 2 yrs in a half. we both have children from our previous merriages. we both our divorced. my ex husband does not like my bf bcuz i wuz cheating on him while still married but never confirmed that with my ex. now my bf is upset that i dont come clean that he wuznt the only guy i cheated on with my ex husband. he only wants me to come clean bcuz he says he shouldnt b the only one to take all the shit my ex husband gives him or will. let me just mentioned that, to me my marriage wuz over in my heart and mind.the cheating b4 my bf wuz bout 8 yrs ago and ik i did wrong by cheating. but i only stook around for the kids. now bcuz of that my bf says that he feels he cannot b n my kids events bcuz he believes my ex will start problems.. my bf would love to b there but he holds back bcuz of my ex.. now me and his ex wife dont get a long neither we almost fist fought bcuz shes just a dumb ghetto wanna b ganster brod. and my bf said that if me being there at his kids events she might start problms.he aint scare to tell her to back off which neither am i to my ex but he is affraid she might not let him c his kids.. but this has me really down that we cannot b in our childrens events like couples do it hurts me really bad that our exes get the best of us.. now i feel like breaking up with him bcuz i feel i cannot have a full relationship. i just feel so disapointed. should i break up with him and in the long run find someone i can b open with and b there for each other in evrything with out being excluded? or can my relationship work out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011): It appears that all of you are very immature. Why are you fighting with his ex-wife? You guys are doing nothing but showing the children how not to live. It appears that you cheated on your ex-husband twice, why do you think you do that? Why is it that you can not be totally devoted to one person? When a relationship starts out of having an affair things are always going to be a little disturbing only because I feel that neither person is every really going to trust the other. The only person that can really answer the question is you, if you do deceide to break off this relationship then you need to be alone for a while so you can figure out who you are and what you really want out of life.
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