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writes:Can I ever learn to trust my husband again?I just found out 6 month ago that my husband has to children from a previous marraige. We have been dating for 6 years and have been married for two. Its not that I didn't ask he just flat out lied, and I don't understand why. He has not seen his children or talk to them in the past six years. this is not the only thing that he has lied about but it is the most important. T an not sure if I can trust him, but I do love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (24 May 2007):
 Personally, I think if a person would lie about not having children and they did, that would only make me question what else have they lied about. That is not something to me you lie about. However, I would be curious to know his response as to why he did lie. And to just "throw" them out without their father in there lives...hmmmm, I think you really need to think about this and get some straight answers from him. And not lying one's either!
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (22 May 2007):
 This wasnt a little secret or a little lie. This was major huge stuff! Two human beings were made out to not exist! I personally dont know if I could recover from something like that. The two of you should get into some counciling so see if you can work it out.
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reader, nicola79  +, writes (22 May 2007):
 you need to sit down with him,dont shout it him but ask him why he felf he couldnt talk to you about this?
i would be really hurt if i was you and tell him this. ask why he doesnt see his children and would he like to. it may be that his ex is making it hard for him to see them? does he pay for his kids? if so he does have a right to see them.
i hope things work out for you. xxxxxx
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reader, ladybird +, writes (22 May 2007):
The biggest part of a relationship is trust and if thats gone its very hard to get it back. i undrestand how you feel ive had my trust broken and it hurts. You have now got to decide wether your relationship can recover from this. This is a major thing he has lied to you about. If if was me i wouldnt give him the time of day i would find someone that does not lie and cheat there way through life
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