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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up 2 months ago. Bc of snowballing miscommunication. In the first month I tried to do everything to get him back until I realized laying off was the best thing I could do. A week later, he started contacting me. Then, to make matters worse, he received a 6 month overseas assignment and left 2 weeks later. Now, he's been over there for the past month BUT in the past month gone, he's been emailing, texting and calling more and more often.Can I be optimistic he's still into me and we may have a chance of rekindling? He's allowed to come home for a week every month starting next month.Thx for the help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2009): i would say yes - there is a chance he is still into you.
you have a chance to reboot and start again with him - now you have to think and work on what went wrong between you and him. And find how to solve it - talking normally.
but when he comes back be prepared, he might not want you, so play it like a series of dates and start again. (note thats unless he is so gagging for it)
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reader, Prophet7 +, writes (16 May 2009):
Don't get your hopes up because if it doesn't go the way you want it will be a huge let down.Keep communicating with him and don't pressure him to come back. Give him time and let him see what he is missing in you. Being optimistic is a good thing but we must not lose sight of reality. Seems to me that when you layed off he started missing you.Just take it one day at a time, if he's yours he will return to you. Hope my advice helps you. God Bless... Prophet7
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