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writes: The thing is my friend who i was really close to left last summer and i miss him loads. He moved near london and i live near scotland so i don't think i will ever see him again :(I'm 16 by the way. I saw him at christmas and i was so shocked i couldn't talk lol It was great we had a big cath up and i didn't want to say goodbye.We e-mail sometimes but it's not the same. we were so close and now, not spending any time with him is hell!He was always there when i needed him, for advice or just a friendly face.But the thing is i really want to see him again but i know i will probably have 2 wait for ages like months :(Do you think i should e-mail him and see if there is any way how we can meet up?Or do you think i should leave it and see what happens in the future?it may seem silly but he was my best mate and i don't wanna loose him :(please reply x
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reader, Island Vibe +, writes (14 June 2008):
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i guess the distance shouldn't bother me too much,
But i feel empty without him :(
I will e-mail him more n hopefully meet up again
:)
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reader, earthgirl +, writes (13 June 2008):
i understand what you are going through as i have went through the same thing i live in scotland and my friend he is in cambridge. we kept in touch for a good while and then i saw him at new year which was amazing thing is we sort of lost touch and it is hell. My advice to you is keep in contact email lot's more you will see him again, if your friendship was so strong that you can't let go, then don't let go because a true friend is worth fighting for. Also the distance doesn't matter a strong friendship will remain strong no matter how many miles apart. Friendship to me is like a knot in the middle of a rope as you pull the ends of the rope away from each other the knot gets stronger. good luck i hope it works out for you :)
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (13 June 2008):
in my personal opinion i think you should email him and see if you can meet somehow. Its hard to let go of a great friend, so dont. I think meeting up and seeing him is a good idea because that way you dont drift apart and this shows that your a true friend because eventhough your miles apart you still care about your friendship. I say give it a go and send him a email=]
best of luck & take care
hope I helped you out!
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