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writes:I have been chatting online and on the telephone with a very nice gentleman--lives in my hometown, which is in another state. I am going to an out of town wedding about halfway between us--will be an overnight. He has offered to drive up to meet me there because it will be an awful situation where I will only know a very small number of people. I think I want to take him up on the offer. What should I be concerned about?
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 what happens if you met him and thought ho..not quite right here, but then had to take him to the wedding because thats what you agreed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): I think if you have never met this bloke it is a bad idea.
If you don't like his appearance what will you do for the next six hours? Run away and hide amidst the other guests?
If you have never met before and you've only chatted online I would meet with him in a coffee shop to see how the chemistry unfolds there to gauge whether you'd want to take him to a wedding.
If you do proceed I would hesitate to accept rides from him until further on in the relationship. You cannot be too trusting with someone you've just met unless other people you know know of him and where he comes from, etc as he is in your hometown. Ditto shared rooms, etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): i think that should not be your first date. first dates are very important. at the wedding, your attention should be on the newlyweds. on a first date all your attention should be on each other. you might meet someone at the wedding too. starting something with someone in another state will be difficult as it is. good luck whichever way you choose.
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reader, pussy is my thang +, writes (31 July 2009):
of course you can you may never get another chance and i doubt you want to die by your self
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