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writes: My girlfriend recently asked me for a break to reasess the relationship and her feelings. We have been arguing alot lately.Is it because her feelings have changed and she doesnt love me anymore, or because she does but is just frustrated? Can a girl love a guy she asks for a break with?
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reader, StarNews +, writes (14 April 2006):
 I believe in some cases, there can still be love after a break up. Its hard not to have some sort of feelings, especially with years invested. I feel it is possible to love someone, but it doesn't necessarily mean you want to remain with them.
It may be that she is not ready for a committed relationship. Whatever the reason, the noble thing to do is to end the relationship. My personal opinion is that a break does no good. There is a reason for that break, and it will eventually resurface, if the relationship were to continue.
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reader, Alexamanoo +, writes (14 April 2006):
Of course she can. However it is not completely certain. Again, she probably needs to think about the reltionship a bit. Take a step back and see if these arguments are normal, or whether there really is something not right. Take this as a chance for yourself to do just that. You may find a new found love for this reltionship, or you may realise it's not right for you. Whatever happens, do not fear. Give her space and try to relax.
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reader, Lilly_Shipley +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Yes of course a girl can love a guy she asks for a break with. She pronanly just needs a bit of time to herself, thats all.
If you have been arguing then thats probably whats done it. She just needs time to sort herself out and calm down. Once you have been away from her for a week or two you will probably find that it has all blown over and you are back to being a loving couple once more "Absence makes the heart grow stronger" as the saying goes.
Hope that this helps you
Lilly
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 I think the answer to this one is yes, no and maybe. It really depends on the underlying cause of the request for a break which could be many. For example, maybe she has suffered a traumatic even recently and that has undermined her faith in her feelings for you and in the relationship. In that instance she could well still love you.
If you have been arguing alot recently and that is the sole cause then again she could still love you but that could of got lost. Maybe the arguments are merely not what she expected and that has made her question her feelings. In general you should prehaps be glad that she has asked for the space and as such is giving those feelings a chance to resurface. However nothing can be guranteed. Hope that helps.
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