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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Basically, I've liked this guy, Really really liked him, for over a year now.He keeps giving me signs that make me think "Maybe he liked me"...Sort of messed up signs but they're signs all the same...Any way...Everytime i get really excited and think I'm ready to do something about it, something gets in the way...like his new girlfriend. None of my friends know about it except one, not my best friend but a girl i know i can trust and who is going through a similar thing.It gets me really upset you know?...I've been talking on some other chat rooms and everyone says i should do something before it's too late...But what if it's already too late? What if he never even liked me in the first place? I mean, I know that he is a complete flirt. And worst of all, his current girlfriend is a good friend of mine.I know, I know, why don't you talk to her? Well I know how I'd feel in her shoes and i wouldn't exactly like to know about it.They're relationship is not exactly solid - they're going through some "trust issues" right now, obviously due to his tendency to flirt, which i totally understand by the way - i can be the same - but even if they did break up, i'm not sure I'd do anything. Fear of rejection? Hell yeah! But also, I'd obvioulsy have to wait a while before i did anything anyway. I'm not exactly ready to be called a "Boyfriend stealing bee-atch"...Any way...I know this is a long question so thanks for your patience. If any one has any suggestions or just wants to tell me anything, maybe a similar situation they've been in, please do. Thankyou x
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reader, sunrise +, writes (2 March 2007):
 Why would you even consider it? you know he's a flirt, his girlfriend knows he's a flirt and so does everyone else, he's loving all this attention and he gets a kick out of the fact that you are friends with his girlfriend! His arrogance will be his downfall. Forget about him he really isn't worth it, he thinks too much of himself to care about anyone else.x
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