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writes:I've been talking to this guy who lives on the other side of the world, i think i'm falling in love with him... he's falled in love with me, when we are at uni we plan to meet up, i think he could be 'the one', i'm not being silly and immature, but he makes me feel like i'm the only thing that matters to him, so special and loved. we talk about everything, and i want nothing else to be with him... have i fallen in love? he never asks me to do anything i don't want to but we've just started seeing eachother on the webcam, this is even better... if we do get together what will my parents think, we are both from different cultures.. has anyone been in a similar situation? he always says that i am gorgeous and make him so happy, what compliments to guys like to recieve?
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (17 March 2009):
 I have several points to make.First of all, i laughed at the previous comment about the husband matching his socks - mines happy if i compliment him on having some! :)Second of all, it is pretty common these days to have found love online, people tend to get a sense of the other person before they meet, but you should indeed be careful - for every one good guy out there there are 5 not so good guys and as much as you "know" this guy is sound, you should just be careful for your own good, when first meeting - trust no-one (not even the pope!) it isnt worth risking your life...dramatic as i sound, i mean it. Hookng up online and meting in person is all well and good - im not sure which cultures you are both from but there is no real reason why 2 people from 2 different cultures cannot make it work, but i think you're early days right now and when you havent met you have 50% of what you think this person islike, in your head...just take it slow.I met my husband online in 2006, i was in the uk, he was in the usa, we are both in the usa after 3 years of tooing and frowing, it was hard, trying, difficult, happy, sad and confusing, but we both wanted it to work, so it did and here we are....Stay positive, stay safe - tell people if you intend to meet up, tell them when and do it in public. As for compliments, my husband has hair like wolverine, he spends ages gelling it up, he loves it when i compliment him on this, or just telling him how good he looks generally or just encouraging him with day to day stuff...say what you feel is right at the time, any compliment is good, if it has good intentions :)Good luck!!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 March 2009):
 My husband is pleased when I compliment him on his being able to match his socks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2009): what a bizarre series of questions. So in order:
No
think you are daft
probably
any ones that are well meant.
I think you need to be careful - don't trust people you have never met. (except maybe the pope) remeber you are young and keen and excitable, making you easy pickings for people who prey on such things. Please see my note about pictures and cams...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-fun-to-take-pictures--why.html
so just think. I know at 16-17 I knew nothing of love. I knew what i thought was Love then and believe me it has changed sooo much :) to now.
Anyway enjoy - take your time if its meant to be, it will be.
Hugs, Star.x.
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