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writes: My ex and I broke up 5 years ago and have both had other relationships since then. Despite our other partners we have been having text and phone sex for throughout the 5 years since we split. I know that none of my relationships since him have been very serious and his can't have been since he continued to text but should I read anything into it or just let it lie? He also rings me every year on our old anniversary. Weird!
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reader, charliesgirl +, writes (22 July 2005):
You don't actually mention why you broke up in the first place. As you are obviously still attached to each other, I question why you stopped dating?
It seems that even after 5 years of separation, you and your ex boyfriend are still extremely close, sexually and emotionally. Rather than texting each other and the occasional phone call, why don't you suggest to meet to discuss your feelings for each other, as they are obviously still present. It is unfair on your partner and your ex's current partner to continue having a half relationship with each other.
If you can have this out face to face, then you can either decide to have a reconciliation, or you will know that it is finished for good. If you do decide to get back together then you must both be honest to your current partner(s). If you decide that you don't have a future then cut communications with him and move on with your life.
At least this way, you will know one way or another.
All the best
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