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writes: I am 16 years old and I have a crush on a 23 year old guy. I know my parents would agree with the relationship. He plays for my local football team and I talk to him after every game but I don't know whether I should tell him that I like him or how to find out if he's interested. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): hi. i was the writer of this question and wanted to say thanks for the advice. i did not use it, however the guy in question introduced me to a friend who was a year younger than him and we have been a couple for 18 months. i could not be happier. I am now 18 and my boyfriend 24. we are a great couple and the person in the question is now one of my closest friends. :-)
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reader, jess18maine  +, writes (28 July 2005):
 Hey Hun,
I feel connected to you alreaddy. I'm 17 and my b/f is 24! Same thing as you adn this guy but my b/f and I are just older by a year each! Don't let the age be a problem, exspecially if your parents will be cool with him. Just like that other women said older guys are into older guy things. Don't do anything your not readdy for, but what am I saying you may have alreaddy lost your virginaty, but that still does not mean you have to have sec with him. If this is about you having confidence to go up and talk to him, just do it, you never know whats going to happen. After one of the football games when ur talking to him just say hey maybe we should hang out sumtime and if he says yes then be like want my number then its in his court to call you! just have confidence! You probably like him because girls are more mature then guys so girls tend to go for older guys because then if there older then us they may just have the same maturity level. Be smart and Be safe he is older and he's probably gotten around, but everyones different too. walk up to him with all the confidence in the world, keep ur head high, and smile. Ps: be sure to have pen and paper w/ u incase he says he wants ur number! lol unless its a really easy umber to remember! Good LUCK!!!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (21 July 2005):
 Firstly, I want to say be careful. You don't really know him yet so takes things slow, as older guys often want more than younger girls are ready to give, if you know what I mean.
If you want to get to know him, go for it! You'll never know if you don't. Put some gorgeous clothes on (nothing too tarty, you don't want to give the wrong impression!) and go and chat to him. Guys love confidence, just be yourself. Good luck :)
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