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writes:My Boyfriend and i were about to have sex the other night when he 'lost it' he blamed the one glass of wine we had an hour earlier with our meal, could the wine be a valid reason?Just because this happened a few weeks back also but we have been together for four years and it has never happened once bar this last month. thank u x Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (1 June 2007):
 I don't think you can blame the loss of an erection on one glass of wine with dinner. Brewers droop is more common with guys that have been out and had a skinful, then tried to have sex with their partner at the end of the night.
It's common in guys to get a droop every now and then, but if it happens on a regular basis it could be stress, something he is worrying about, or even diet.
Good luck x
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (1 June 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
One glass of wine usually won't kill an erection, however it's pretty common for guys to "lose it" once in awhile. If over the last four years this has only happened a few times... well, there's nothing wrong with him, that's for sure!
He may have "lost it" due to stress, work, or maybe his mind just wandered and he got distracted.
It can be pretty embarrassing for guys when this happens and they fumble for any excuse. If he wants to blame the wine, let him... I'm sure he's not cheating or anything horrible. Sometimes these things just happen. If it starts to happen consistently, however - you might try finding out what's going on with him. He might have a lot on his mind?
Good luck, sweetness!
xxIndia
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reader, flower girl +, writes (1 June 2007):
 It could be brewers droop, stress or relationship issues to be honest as it has only happened once i would not worry too much as they all have the odd occasion where it does not want to perform, if it should happen again try talking to him and see how he feels about everything in general at the moment.
Take care.xx
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