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writes: Is it possible for me to get my wife to have sex with another man,she has done this one time before for me and I have a fetish about that.thanks for your advice
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (1 June 2007):
 Talk to her about it, did she enjoy this the last time you did it or was she not keen on the whole experience?
If she is happy with it then yes repeat your threesome and have some fun, but think about her feelings first and make sure she is okay with doing this.
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reader, silent_whispers +, writes (1 June 2007):
I have heard so many people say this, especially men about fetish of 3-some, but you need to ask yourself some questions. Firstly, does your wife want to, is it something she wants, or r u just being selfish?secondly,you should always remember that a wife commits herself to one man, and if she does have a 3 some, that in some ways can show lack of respect, because she would be naked before another man, and if she enjoys it, what if she decides to take things further with the 3rd person?i know of a lady who then went with the other man and left her husband because the other man pleased her more. sometimes, dreams and fantasies are best left that way, but the choice is yours, just make sure you think 10 times before taking any step.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (1 June 2007):
 We women do a lot for the men we are with. A long time ago I did this with a boyfriend I was with. He always wanted to try it and I was curious (if I'm being honest here). If he hadn't pushed it though then it would always have remained a fantasy with me but once he heard that I was the slightest bit curious he went ahead and set it up. We did all meet and the 3-some took place. After 5 minutes I was ready to go home. It was okay but nothing like it's cracked up to be. My fantasy would have been much better remaining a fantasy as the reality is NEVER the same.
I told my boyfriend when he asked me that I did enjoy it as he was ecstatic about it having taken place and told me how elated it made him feel. I couldn't understand that however, I just felt cheap and dirty and sad that he was happy to actually watch me with another man. He talked about it for weeks after it, saying how we should do it again but I said no! In a way a felt bad because I wanted him to be happy but I knew I could never go there again, I hated it! To make matters worse the 3rd person kept texting me all the time, telling me how much he felt for me and how he'd love to meet me again. To cut a long story short that 3-some split my boyfriend and I up! So my advice to you would be enjoy the image you have in your head about it but leave it at that.
I'm sure if you really ask your wife if she enjoyed it you might just be surprised by her answer. If she didn't want to see him again there was OBVIOUSLY a reason! Let it go and think of HER feelings instead of your own.
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): Yes she did enjoy it and he even went to our house aftwards but she didn't want to see him again but I know she was kissing him passionately at the house
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2007): If she has done it in the past, maybe but how did she react afterwards? If she was hurt that you wanted her to be with another man, then do not ask her to do this again. Unless you think it's worth ruining your relationship over. Some fantasies are better left in your fantasies and should not be acted upon. In my opinion, if my boyfriend or husband especially asked me to have sex or be with someone else, I'd feel as if he didn't love me. I wouldn't want him to be with anyone else. You should know by how it went last time she did that wether or not you should ask her to do it again. If she enjoyed it, she'd of asked you if she could do it again, because she knows you like that. So going from what you've said in your question (which wasn't much) I'd say we need more details to give you a good answer.
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (1 June 2007):
 Its not impossible but how does your wife REALLY feel about doing this? S=The first time might of been just to please your fantasies and to experiment.
Before you go ahead with anything like this your wife has to feel very comfortable doing this; and not just an ok, she has to show a passion for it as you would. Without this, chances are she is doing it for you and not for herself and not for the sex. Forcing her to do this will put so much strain on her emotions and the whole of the relationship.
be sure she wants to go through with this and if she does decline dont take it badly. Sex between two people should be special enough without the need to involve a third person into the mix. If not the threesome surely there is something else you can try in the bedrrom which is not as taxing on the emotions and more fun for BOTH of you.
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