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writes:Hey,I noticed most of the guys who reply on this site are girls, so it'll be interesting to see the responses.I'm 17, soon 18. I've been with this girl for 6 months of more... started casual and we only spent time togehter because it was fun and now it's obvious we're both crazy about each other. I've never felt like this about a girl. But, we're in our final year of school, after the summer break we go to universities on the other side of the country from one another and during that summer we go on loads of holidays apart from one another.When do we break up? Assuming we do... because it seems crazy to stay with someone through uni and we'd both struggle to not cheat. Thing is I feel I'll probably never meet someone I get on with this well again, I don't want to lose her! AHHH!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Dont assume that you should break up. My friend and her bloke stayed together even though they went to uni in different parts of the UK. They kept in touch, still both went on holidays with friends and yet kept and open mind. Got back to together at each big holiday breaks and now they are married and with kids, so it can be done. But you are her need to talk and talk long and hard about exactly how you both feel about it. If you decide to split, then who knows you may meet up in the future. But talk to her about it.
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reader, Variety +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Talk to her now about it.
One of my friends thought she would stay with her boyfriend through uni and he dumped her the day before she went. Needless to say this ruined freshers for her. He - in his defense - had assumed that they wouldn't stay together.
If you work at it you could stay together. If you decide not to then that is also ok. But you do need to talk to her because one of you might decide there is little point in staying together if it is never going anywhere. Hope this helps. x
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reader, Emmy-Lou +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Don't be so quick to jump into this decision. You will be amazed how many people go to different uni's and stay together. You will always have your summer breaks and such to see each other in.And if you wanted to be truly romatic, you could always show up and surprise her a couple of times. Girls love it when their man does things like that.My serious suggestion is to sit down and talk to her about it, see how she feels. She may feel that it's the right time to break up or she may surprise you and want to stay together.Don't make this decision alone.Hope this helps and good luck.
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