A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I Have a boyfriend who i have been with for 18 months , and he has been there for me through hard times. My family do like him.However as im only 17 , we went on a break because i really needed space , i didnt want to be tied down to just one boy. I met this other boy who was lovly took me out , and really liked me and gave those butterflies again. And i really like him.My boyfriend ever took me out really , we just tended to sit in and watch films , but i think im in a comfort zone with him that i wouldnt be with anyone else because my conficdence was knoke becuase of personal issues? I dont know which boy i want , because i cant keep playing them off.Oh and my boyfriend doesnt know about the other boy , but the boy knows about my boyfriend and knows thats why i finnsished us.Help please :( xxxx
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 I think you should break it off with your BF. You're already looking elsewhere. It is really only proper to do that after you've broken things off. Being "on a break" is supposed to be a time for each of you to reflect on your relationship and get over issues, not to go out and fool around with other people.
Just because he's comfortable doesn't mean he's right for you. If he was right for you, you wouldn't have needed a break. You also wouldn't have gone out and fooled around with somebody else.
Time to move on.
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