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writes:i am 19 years old and m having relationship with a guy who is 26 years old. we met each other around 3 years ago on a social networking site and den after chatting for about 3 months, v met each other. earlier v used to have a stable n a calm relation but now evryday is getting hell coz of misunderstanding, insecurity, ego clashes n etc etc. he wants that i shud always do whatevr he says and dat too in one go and if it is nt d case den he wud leave me. its getting hard for me as neither i cn leave him nor can i live without him. evry second day we fight ovr some or other issue and den he says that he dont wnt to live with me. i left my whole freind circle coz he didnt want me to talk to ne other guy. i dont understand what the problem is but ds relation is jus creating more n more problems for me evryday. Reply to this Question
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reader, charliesdevil73  +, writes (29 August 2010):
 Ask yourself this question, "what is a 26 year old man doing with a 19 year old?"
He is wanting you to change who you are to be with him. He knows you probably don't have a lot of experience with relationships. He will do this always. And, when you put your foot down it will start an argument. I have been there, done that. I dated an older man when I was 18 and it lasted on and off for almost 3 years. I don't regret it because it taught me a lot about relationships and what I will and will not put up with. When you start to become your own person and have your own views, which trust me you do not have yet, he will leave you.
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