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*londebaby
writes:Boyfriend broke up with me friday, says we fight to much.. i was living with him in his dads house. he quit his job and plays video games all day and smokes pot all day.. he's 23 i'm 18. Since we've broke up i've been going out with friends. he's texted me everyday trying to make me feel bad.. i told him i was gonna move on and he didnt like that one bit.. last night he texted me and asked when we can exchange stuff and said "i told you you'd be just as happy without me" i replied and told him i wasnt.. he kept say i could have changed his mind blah blah blah but then when i called him he said i dont get another chance and he can't do it again.. now he's going to a city 4 hours away which is known as party city for the weekend.. he texted me earlier to ask if i was off? i guess so he could come get his stuff i have of his at my house.. im confused on if he's saying he doesnt wanna get back with me now so he can go party this weekend and come back monday and wanna talk and stuff or if hes really done.. should i ignore him? or let him come get his stuff?... i dont know what to do...
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 September 2011):
 He said that you don't need another chance??
Even if he wants you to chase him, don't take the bait. Your loser ex is not worthy of someone of your caliber. He's wasting his life and probably killing off his brain cells. You don't have to go spiraling downward with him. He has nothing to offer you except for maybe a hit off of a joint. Which I don't recommend. Let this loser go.
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reader, blondebaby +, writes (23 September 2011):
blondebaby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks ya'll :)
Want a funny update?
When i told me i dont get another chance i hung up on him.
He's blown up my phone the past 2 days and i haven't responded at all.. Think it's getting to him and he wants me to chase him?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 September 2011):
23, jobless, I'm assuming he's not in college either or has a degree, smokes pot, now sponging off his daddy, and plays video games all day. Sounds like a winner!!
And you would want to take him back? Seriously?
I don't know how he's going to spend the weekend partying with no job.
Cut this guy off! He's going no where in life and has nothing to offer you.
If he wants his stuff, throw it in a box, write his name on it, and leave it on his doorstep. Then proceed to move onto a boyfriend who is mature for his age and has a job.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2011):
Sometimes, you girls do pick 'em!
Please, look at who this guy is. He quit his job in a recession and doesn't work or make an attempt to work, so has no real motivation to do anything with himself career wise.
He sits around playing video games.
He smokes pot whilst also being unemployed and playing video games.
Then he blames you for the break up and expects you to change his mind.
So really, he's just a lazy 23 year old, inconsiderate, unemployed druggie who won't take responsibility for his own life and just blames others.
What a loser! What a total, useless loser! He's a total waste of space, and thank God he ended it because you'd have wound up entirely miserable with a guy who literally offers nothing.
Let him get his stuff, but don't be there when he does. Let your Dad be there or something. Just get rid of this bum and find a guy who actually has a future.
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