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writes:I need some advice I have a boyfriend whom I been with for over 6 years, and he has lost total interest in me from kissing me in the morning when he leaves to work to having sex with me, sometimes when I try having sex with him and he pushes me away (literally) I just go in the room and cry without him knowing, it hurts so bad. I've never heard. Of man who doesn't like to get treated nice and caressed by their significant other, idk what else to do! We broke up before due to this matter and got back together then it all went back to how it was!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2011): I feel for you 100% here. and I'm so sorry. but I'll tell you what I think. many it's hard to hear, but I'm going to try not to sugar-coat it too much.
I think you should tell him exactly how you feel. you're feeling neglected, am I wrong? talk to him.
and my suggestion...break up with him, at least for a while. I'm not saying you shouldn't get back together after a bit, but it could be for the best to take a break. maybe he could realize in that time awayfrom you that he was being rediculous. or maybe in that time away, (I know it may be jard to hear now but..) you'll both realize that it would be better to see other people.
I'll admit, it's not really my place to be speaking like this. and who am I to say I know what's best for you and your relationship? I'm not you, an I am certainly not him either. this is just simply my view. it's totally up to you what you do.
buy I'm very sorry for you. you should really get out and do something. something that truly makes YOU happy. it'll make you feel even just a bit better, because I know how awful this probably feels. go out with some friends, party,(not too crazy, don't do anything you'll regret!) dance, live, laugh, just have fun. maybe, I don't know if your a person of faith, but if you're a Christian, maybe go to church. that makes me feel better, I always feel loved walking away from church. talk to some friends about it. some you know really loves you.
and yes, someone loves you:)
not to sound weird ot anything..haha.
but I really hope everything works our in your favor, and remember...no matter how dark it may seem, I can garentee it will always get better.
hope I helped, even just a bit.
god bless.
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reader, aebniala  +, writes (9 August 2011):
Ever tried to get get your life back, your are to mutch availeble to him. Please yourself, get out with the girls, find new friends, use your spare time help.VOLUNTEER.
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