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writes:hey i don't know what to do right now. See the guy i love and who is my boyfriend we have been going out for a year now and he is just after telling me that he has to go away forever because something to do with his parents and money. He has to go away to poland and he has been begging his parents to stay but they won't let him and i don't know what to do. i want him to stay and if he does not i can't live without him. He is my whole life he is the only reason i get up in the morning with a smile on my face, when i go to see him i get good butterflies in my stomach but i can't live my life without him so please help me figure a way out for him to stay thanks x[moderator corrected abbreviations]
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (19 October 2011):
 I'm sorry to say this but there is nothing you can do I'm afraid, if his parents have to go back to Poland then he has to go as well unfortunately. He cant stay with you on his own with no money and no family, he has to go go with them.
It wont be forever - when he is older he can come back to Ireland if he wants to be with you when he has his own money and can look after himself. And you can always visit each other - save up your money for plane tickets and you can take it in turns to go visit.
I know it seems like you cant live without him and it will be very hard, but you will survive. It is just a boyfriend, even if it becomes a long distance relationship if you really love each other you will manage. You cant die just because the person you love moves away, I'm not saying it will be easy but you will cope and life will go on.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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