A
female
age
26-29,
*oraa
writes:My boyfriend has just told me he is going to London for the weekend with 3 other girls, and possibly another. He will be the omly boy. One of these girls is his ex girlfriend- who he is.close to and she is.newly single. The girl who's birthday it is has a crush on him. I used to be friends with these girls however our.friendship has deteriorated recently. I am not okay with him going.In addition there are rumours he has kissed his ex under a friends duvet once. It is a sleep.over and he will be seeing 3-4 girls in their pyjamas. I am definately not okay with that.Finally it is two days after our 6month annivesary. I am really, really not okay with this.Please tell me what I can do?Thank you x
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reader, soon567  +, writes (12 September 2011):
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guy is going to be busy, hands everywhere, sorry that would be me. I would just tell him the truth, its over coz we both know if hes a virgin when he leaves, he want be when he return.
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 I would talk to him and tell him calmly and honestly that your not ok with it and how it is making you feel.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 September 2011):
 I suggest you dump him... and tell him that if - after a full year apart (That means, sometime in Spetember of 2012!) he thinks he wants to spend time with you.... THEN, AND ONLY THEN, will you speak with him.....
Good luck....
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reader, babygirllovej  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 No wonder you are not ok with this!! I would never be ok with my boyfriend going. Honestly you need to talk to him about this. Explain how you feel and ask him how he would feel if the situation was reversed.
If he insists on going I would really think if your relationship is worth it. By going on this trip he is showing zero respect for you and there are rumors he is cheating on you. I myself would leave the relationship.
However this is my opinion so whatever you choose to do is up to you. You know more then anyone if he is worth staying with.
Good Luck!
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