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*bradley
writes:are there guys out there that don't like to be touched snuggling? and what do you do when you have a boyfriend that is quiet and don't like to be touched and really does not talk to you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): I think he is just shy. Maybe talk to him more and tell him that you love him. I'm not saying that you don't already but it's an idea. Talk to him more and go out places with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): It sounds to me as if he has lost attraction for you if this is a new development....try asking him what the problem is, that you feel rejected...or better yet, don't initiate anything, if he is sitting like a lump, walk away from him and do something else, go to another room....let him come to you....sometimes men come closer if we don't chase them or push them into physical affection.....let him do some chasing and see if that doesn't turn things around.
Otherwise, why would you want to be with a guy who is so unemotional? I would be bored.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (26 March 2009):
 I agree with the previous comments... I think it's time to "trade up" to a boyfriend that's a little more emotionally in tune with the world... or at least on the same emotional page you are!
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reader, passionatelynumb +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Find another boyfriend.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Why on earth are you with him, I mean the guy doesn't talk to you? What's up with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): How long have you been dating this guy? Has it always been this way? Me personally I couldn't handle that, I like being affectionate and I would take it personal if he didn't want me to touch him or talk to me. Doesn't sound like much of a relationship, but that's just based on what I know, which is not much. I know you said he doesn't talk to you, but have you tried asking him what in the world is going on?
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