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30-35,
*ingingFlowers
writes:My boyfriend has recently told me that my efforts in wearing sexy underwear do nothing for him. He has told me that underwear has no effect on him, so I should stop trying and wasting my money. This upsets me for two reasons, one, I find it slightly offensive that he doesn't find it attractive when I make an effort, and two, I like to wear sexy underwear, it makes me feel confident. I don't know what I should be thinking? Is this normal? I dont feel wanted or appreciated and it's affecting my already low self esteem. Any help?
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reader, BradsBabyGirl  +, writes (12 January 2009):
What an a hole that's mean pshh I'd cut him off from anything sexual till he liked your underwear haha but that's just me I'm spiteful you shouldn't care what he thinks guys suck if it makes you feel better my unborn babys dad is an a hole too
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): If you like sexy underwear wear it, don't wear it for him, wear it for yourself so you feel beautiful from within that's what's important.
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reader, sheribaby38 +, writes (12 January 2009):
 I myself would not give a damn if he likes them or not. wear them for you. If he does not care for underwear thats his prerogative.
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