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writes:I have a boyfriend right now. we just recently called it official, but before that, about four months ago, we both liked each other, but i was scared i was going to get my heart broken, so i started pushing him away purposely and not talking to him. it wasn't until 2 months later i said sorry n told him i wanted him back, becuse i hadn't realized what i had until i lost it. he said ok, nd gave me another chance. we liked eachother again. he then asked me out, and i was more than happy to say yes. i knew i hd messed up before so i tried my best to show him it was real this time. we have been together for three weeks now. a couple days ago we were out, n one thing led to another. we were in a car, with his friend in it to. he fingered me, then i proceeded to give him head. he then was so horney he didn't care about anything so he asked so just ave sex, really fast, which it was not even that many pumps. we stopped because my mom had called me home so we couldn't finish off. it was terible sex because our friend was there, and i wasn't comfortable doing it, so i was very hesitant. after while we were drivving it was very quiet, and as soon as i got in my room i cried because i knew i had messed up before, and to think i might have done it again with someone i liked so much, just tore me apart. our first time was sapposed to be good, not a few second pumps n a car with his frien there. and on top of that, he was a virgin. i cant even stress how guilty i feel to take his virginity like that. it is very awkward now, is i always going to be like his? is there anychance the awkwardness wil go away and make our relationship better? thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): You should plan out the next encounter with him as being a little more romantic. Perhaps not in the car and definitely not with any friends around. Don't feel bad because you're a caring person and he's lucky to have you.
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reader, sheribaby38 +, writes (12 January 2009):
 it does not sound to me like you had to twist his arm. he was the one who iniciated it. but from now a little more privacy when your having your time together would be more classier.its not a good thing to be having sex in a car with someone else in it! thats something very private. respect yourself and each other.
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