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writes:ok I'm 13 and this guy in my nieghborhood is 15 and we are both in 8th grade. I like him (I might love him) he liked me last year and we talk all the time we are like best friends I think he likes me and I want him to ask me out, my mom lets me and him go places by ourselves all the time and I really want to go out with him my mom and dad (especially my dad) says that I can't have a boyfriend. My parents don't know he is 15 they think he is like 14 but still I really want him to ask me out but I am scared if he does because I don't want my mom or dad to find out! what should I do please help me
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reader, aryonna +, writes (9 April 2009):
show your parents how older you are now and that your not their "little girl" anymore. you are old enough now to have a boyfriend. you should tell them you are definetly not going to do anything considored "nasty" with him. if he asks you out calmly tell him what you feel in your heart. if the parent talk did not work then tell him somehting like " i wish i could but..............." and so on. hope you can use my advise!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): Ok You Need Seriously Need To Leave Him Alone The Boy Needs To Get Out The 8th Grade.im 15 In The 10th Grade He Needs To Get His Head In The Books.
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (12 January 2009):
Well, I used to be in the same position that you're in right now. My mom wouldn't let me have a boyfriend. I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 15 right now. I talked to my mom about it. Maybe you should try talking to your parents, and let them know that you can be responsible and also, it helps if you let your parents know that you can keep your grades up in school. Lol But also, if you talk to your parents, try setting limits to what you and your boyfriend are able to do, and where you guys are able to go by yourselves. Trust me, I know how you feel, when I first started dating my boyfriend, I had to talk to my mom and when I told her I would keep my grades up and be responsible, it really helped and she finally let me have a boyfriend. So just try having a serious talk with your parents and maybe they'll understand and agree, and finally let you have a boyfriend. Hope it all works out:) Message me and let me know how everything goes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): Well if your parents won't let you have a boyfriend right now then you need to respect that. When my daughter was 13 I didn't let her date 15 year old boys either. You have the rest of your life to be boy crazy. Just be his friend and spend fun times together but don't be in such a hurry to have a boyfriend yet.
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