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writes:I know this is bad. This is really bad but I am freaking out. In life you always heard the statement be careful about what you wish for you might just get it. Yesterday I got everything I ever wished for just in terrible timing. I have two people claiming love for me. I am in love with them both. The first guy Josh me and him have been broken up about two months and we dated for two years and yesterday he called me crying begging me back the terrible thing is that I am in another relationship with a guy named Nick who is also my ex-boyfriend. We dated while we were in high school and he was my first love. Both of these guys broke up with me. I love them both and I never wanted to hurt any of them. I don't really need an answer on who to choose but more on what to do inorder to choose. I just need to sort through all this madness. Both men claim they wish to marry me and that I am the love of there life and they can't live without me. It is very eerie how similar they sound. I am just lost and confused because all I ever wished for was both of them back at different times in my life and now I have it and all I wish is that I don't want to hurt anyone but I know one or both are going to be hurt. I never wanted to hurt either of them they both have always meant a lot to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2011): I don't think that it's as easy to say that you aren't in love with either of them...I am in the same situation. It's hard. You didn't plan it this way. It will take time, and someone may get hurt, but you have to find your soul. Which one makes your heart truly sing? Who gives you the butterflies? Who will stand by you thick and thin and treat you right? It make take a minute to figure all that out, but write it down, then read it. Listen to your heart and soul and try to forget logic for a moment. Tomorrow is a new day and hurt fades, but love doesn't. Take time for yourself. Best of luck to you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 May 2011):
Why go back to either of them? You're unable to choose, which means neither is the right one in the first place. And to add to that, they're both ex's anyway which means it didn't work out before. Best to move on really.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (8 May 2011):
I totally agree with Vintage64 here. Someone who claims to be in lover with more than one person, isn't in love at all. And, probably, was never in love before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2011): *It is very eerie how similar they sound
Are you sure they haven't been in contact? You may love with them both but you are not in love with either, if you were you wouldn't be asking the question. I would make a clean break from both.
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